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| Denise with her second toyboy Dan |
45 years old Denise Hardwick who feels that life is too short and everything in life is all about risk was swept off her feet by a young Gambian man who turned out to be a love cheat shortly after they married and now she's netted herself another toyboy from Gambia. She says that even though people feels she is the most stupid woman on earth but she is not concerned.
Denise who has never been to West African country had a change of heart in November 2011 when her 11 years old daughter agreed to join her sister on a holiday to the West African country. Losing her brother and mother to cancer drove her in search of some happiness. Although Gambia was not in her mind but after searching more about the country's tourist area, she was attracted to its beaches.
While in Gambia she met 28 years old Badou who works in a hotel and also a tennis coach. His fluency in English and handsome body attracted her. He was always teaching her son to play tennis.
The whole affair started after Badou invited Denise and her sister out for a night outing. From there the pair quickly became inseparable. Denise said she fancied him from the start. But he was a strict Muslim and she respected that. They didn’t do anything more than kiss or cuddle.
After the holiday was over Denise flew back to Britain but promised to come back. In Feb. 2011, Denise flew back to Gambia and this time Badou talked about getting married to her so they could start living together.
But it quickly became clear Badou was broke and it was up to Denise to bankroll the relationship and buy flights for frequent trips to see him.
She says: “I used all my spare money to make the relationship work. I was forced to rent out a spare room in my house for extra cash.” She even paid out £900 in solicitor fees to try to secure him a holiday visa to the UK.
Badou finally propose to her in Oct. 2012 when she flew in to Gambia. They got married in Gambia. Her sister and son stopped talking to her when she finally told them.
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| Denise on her wedding day with Badou |
Days after tying the knot, the couple discussed where they would live. She returned to the UK determined to get him a visa. But once she was back home in Epsom, Surrey, Denise says Badou changed. He stopped calling her like before, he started making up different excuses for her not to come see him. Then she knew something was wrong.
When Denise flew to see him in March 2013, she realised she had made the biggest mistake of her life. Badou was really angry when she turned up and refused to spend the night with her. Badou's mother then announced to her that he was impotent and needed to see a witch doctor.
In July, her worst fears were confirmed. His friend called Denise and told her that Badou wanted a divorce. He said he’d met a younger English woman and wanted to be with her as she couldn’t give him children. She felt cheated on and then she remembered all her family told her.
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| Denise holding her wedding photo to Badou |
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But then Denise couldn't let go of lovestruck. She continued to visit Gambia in the hope of winning back her love-rat hubby – only to end up with toyboy Dan Jarju, 29, who worked in a juice bar. Suddenly, she was in another relationship.
According to her Dan was gorgeous and she felt really lucky he’s interested in her even though she knows he might be using her too but she is prepared to take that chance. "Life’s too short.” she says...Lol
Denise and Dan are now engaged and are planning the wedding. She wants him to live with her in Britain. She insists every penny of the £10,000 she has spent in her search for love has been worth it.
Could this be love or stupidity?
1 comment :
I am not sure whether to laugh or cry at these articles , when the article which is fundamentally wrong.
I know Badou and he is a lovely guy, with never a bad word to say about anyone.
It was Denise who suggested marriage, not the other way around.
Money? She never gave him any money, he lived on his salary as a tennis coach/player and was self sufficient.
As for the visa, of course he wanted a visa! what spouse wouldn’t want to be with their partner?!
Sadly, it became clear that Denise wanted badou to stay in The Gambia and be her 'plaything', simply waiting on her visits to The Gambia. Only then did Badou realise the marriage was a sham.
He instigated divorce proceedings, and met his second wife many months later,
Since then, Denise has painted a picture of herself as the wronged person and set out , often using illegal means, to ensure that the lives of badou and his family are forever ruined….meanwhile, she goes on holidays to gambia and sleeps with as much of the male population as possible, which she seems to think is acceptable behaviour.
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