The Blogger's Desk: African Men Mentality Of Marrying A Younger Bride Just To Hurt Their Ex-Wives

I just had to discuss this topic because it's becoming too rampant among old aged African men who divorce or separates from their ex-wives only to jump into the hands of young girls old enough to be their daughter . How can a man who is in his late 50s or 60s, marry a young girl in her 20s?. I heard a man telling his wife, if I divorce you, I will marry a girl 2x younger than you...Like for real??. Yes you can marry Miss World to hurt your ex-wife but time shall tell who laughs last when Hypogonadism (male menopause) comes. Or when the banana can longer hold its balance, then her age-mates will then help you perform your duties..Hehehe

Have they ever thought of the heart pains in later years to come when they can no longer perform on bed??. Ofcourse our young wife will seek help outside.
 Have they ever thought about the kind of temptation they are flaunting around their sons by marrying a young wife??. One day their son will love to taste what father enjoys too.
And if the young wife ever gives birth, have they ever thought about the shame they inflict on those poor children's face when they go about flaunting their old selves as their father instead of grandpa during parents meeting???...Hmmm, these kids might even grow up without remembering the face of their father.

And these young girls of nowadays who marry men old enough to be their father, have you ever thought about what you're doing to yourselves??. Please mothers, it's high time we look out for our daughters while they are young.  All these men that flock around in the name of family friends will still be the one to deceive our daughters when they are getting older all in the name of "I will marry you".

You know African women mentality of 'I must marry', has made most of our young girls fall into this trap of marrying men old enough to be their father just to answer 'Mrs somebody'. Well they blame it on society pressure but will society be there when the going gets tough?.

Most people don't think about the future, all their focus is the present, but you forget that when you make a good path in the present then you have a brighter future ahead of you. Let's be wise in decisions we make. Old Divorced men,if you must re-marry then please marry women of your age or better still, if you want a young wife, marry a woman 5-7 years younger than you to avoid cardiac arrest in the future.