5 Reasons Why 50 Percent Of Marriages Crumble Just After A Year

A regular female reader sent this to my mail, she wanted me to post this on my blog because to her they were the reasons behind her failed marriage to her first husband and she needed to shout this out other young couples and couples who are about to tie the knot.

Hello Kamify, I am regular reader of your blog and I find most of your post interesting and funny but sorry, I have not made any comment on these topics because I hate criticing people or judging their actions.
I had to shout out on this topic because these days I see many marriages failing right from after one year of been together, not that the love is not there but most couples make this deadful mistake of relaxing about their love life after marriage.
Now I wil be pointing out these reasons why most marriages fails just after one year of saying "i do".

1. When a woman stop caring about how she looks:
Most women feels that as soon as they are marrried, their look or how they dress does not matter any more. They look haggard, unpolished, and dirty and becomes worst when a child comes in. The truth is that no matter how born again your man can be, they will always love their wife beautiful and attractive. I made that mistake in my first marriage and learnt my lesson.


2. No romantic name:
Couples once they have children, they never address each other by their names anymore except using their children's name to address each other. This is so wrong!, couples are meant to have sweet names for each other and instead of addressing me by my children's name it is better to call yourselves by your own name....To me names like Iya tope, mama Nkechi and so on are not romantic at all, it kills the relationshi in the marriage instantly.

3. No dinner parties or romantic dates together:
Don't wait until somone gives you a wedding invitation or naming ceremony card before you guys can step out together on an event. take time out and make a romantic treat for yourselves, it lighten up relationship and kindle your love again. Night outs are not only for boy friend and girlfriends, it's also for married couples so get up from that couch and take yourselves out for a treat!.

4. Unsexy lingerie:
Do you know sexy lingeries turns a man on?, sometimes you don't know little things matters in marriage. imagine you washing your lingeries and spread out on the sun to dry and you forget to peg them, the wind blows it and it fell to the ground and no one helps you to pick it up because they look so untidy.Then you can  Imagine how our man feels when you undress in his presence with those same unsexy lingerie.

5. No gift, unless it is birthday:
I will stop at this point but this point I find so intresting because most women things men are suppose to be the one buying gifts for their wives but you so wrong, sometimes suprise your man with gifts, go shopping see what you like on him then buy it for him as a gift and husbands same thing too. Don't wait until it's birthday time or anniversary before you can give something.

If these points I have mentioned above are so consistence in your marriage believe me your husband in no due time will find you unattractive and then infidelity comes in, then divorce.
So if you don't want to make same mistake like I did, start now to keep the fire burning in your marriage so you don't allow the single and searching take him away.