Too many people think being single is a horrible thing. However, the single life has its perks. You just have to enjoy it so you don't get rushing back to singlehood when you're finally married.
Singlehood doesn’t have to be a time of suffering or loneliness. It’s not a place of deficiency or lack. Singlehood should be celebrated and explored – these are the years where many of us actually find out who we are. Let's take the trip...
1. Go On Vacations - Vacations are expensive and when you’re married your boo might not want to go where you go. So take your vacations and go where you want.
2. Take a trip Abroad - Don’t just go on any vacation, go abroad. Get out of the country and see the world.
3. Quit Your Job - If you don’t like your job, quit. Because when you have a family, you’ll need those bills paid more than ever. Now is the time to experiment.
4. Relocate - Take a chance on a new life in a new city. It’s easier now than when you have someone with jobs of their own to worry about.
5. Go Out To Eat. Alone. - Go to really fancy restaurants and enjoy. That way, you’re guaranteed to buy what you want without worrying about how much it’ll cost.
6. Waste Money On Yourself - Not, like, all of it. But definitely now is the time to up your sophisticated, classic collections you’ve always wanted.
7. Save Money - Also, keep a stash on the side for savings so you’ll be set up in marriage.
8. Go On Dates - Meet new people. Find out your type. Just go date and enjoy it.
9. Hang Out With Your Friends - Spend as much time with them as possible because when you get those kids it’s a wrap and you’ll never see them again.
10. Get In Shape - Use that free time at the gym and get ripped.
11. Relax - Don’t stress out over being single. This is the most important thing. Relax and the one will come to you in time.
12. Spend a weekend with a married couple your age. -Listen to how they speak to one another. Notice their non-verbals. Ask about the rhythms of their daily life. Make a mental note: marriage is not perfect, nor is it the solution to what ails you. Be happy for your married friends and satisfied in where you’re at today.
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