A reader sent this message and need an advice:
Dear Kamify's readers I need your advice because I am so confused on what to do right now. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years, every time I talk about getting married he always shut me out, he tells me that he is not ready and that I have to stop pushing him into marrying me. I felt he will never ask me to marry him and I am so in love with him but I can't keep waiting so long on someone who isn't ready because age is not on my side. I had to move out from his house in order to mingle with other friends and move on. It was sad because 4 years is not 4 days or months.
Along the way I met another guy called Phillip(not his actual name)who really cared for me but my problem is I am not in love with him, I like him as a friend. My worst fear happened when I found out that I am pregnant for Phillip and he asked me to marry him without even getting to me so well but my love for Phillip isn't enough for to live the rest of my life with and I don't want a divorce after marriage. Please readers I need your advice, do I abort this child? or do I marry Phillip without loving him? I am so confused. If you were in my shoes what will you do?
4 comments :
If you dont love him why did you open your kgs to sleep without protection?
You must marry him becos you are having his child
Well thank God I am not in your shoes but if I was to be honest I wouldnt ve slept with him in the first place
Take your time maybe you will get to love him later
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